My first commissioned quilt was for a friend of mine who was going through a rough time with breast cancer treatment. She had been my sister’s nurse for over a decade, so of course I said yes. I knew exactly what I was going to do, seeing as I only knew one pattern at the time (Cubby Hole) and I had seen the perfect fabric for it. Then everything went wrong. I couldn’t find the fabric to save my life, and then when I did it took forever to ship and the print wasn’t straight on the grain. Two days after the fabric arrived, she passed away.
The quilt turned into a memorial quilt, and helped me process my grief. I was determined to have the quilt done in time for the memorial service. With the help of my mother, who is awesome and often offers to press while I sew, we managed to finish the quilt and it came out of the dryer minutes before we got in the car for the memorial.
To this day, it is the only quilt I don’t have a picture of the final product. After having poured all the memories and emotions into it, it was too personal. I never wanted do another breast cancer quilt, but I started collecting pink awareness ribbon material just in case.
This year, several friends and acquaintances have been diagnosed with breast cancer. I offered to make some quilts to raffle off at some of the fundraisers to help offset their medical costs. Pulling out all the fabric I had collected over the years, I had no clue what to do. On top of that, I wasn’t really sure how much someone would want a quilt with this fabric.
I finally decided to just pinkify some of the patterns I had been playing with. Of course by this point, the fundraisers had already passed. I decided to make the quilts anyways and started gathering different fat quarters of pink material. From each fat quarter, I cut four five inch strips, and each quilt got two of these strips.
Sashed Half Hexi Quilt
Having just finished a Sashed Half Hexi quilt for a friend of mine, and I fell absolutely in love with the pattern. I decided to try it out in pink. The fact that I could get two half hexis from one strip mad me think it would work out well. Unfortunately, I didn’t have enough half hexis to follow the pattern which calls for sewing six half hexis into a block and trimming from there. Instead, I decided to create long braids and cut my blocks from the braid instead. I ended up really liking the variety that this provided and was able to get more out of my fabric.
Tender Hearts Quilt
When I initially was looking for a pattern to do, I kept coming back to the Tender Hearts quilt. Even though Jenny used a jelly roll, at the end of the tutorial, she gives examples of how to modify the block for more variety. I decided to cut the strips into 5 x 8 ½ in blocks and followed the tutorial from there. This quilt and I did not get along from the start. Between sashing issues and tension issues while quilting, to the point of ripping out ¾ of the quilting and redoing it, I actually was surprised at how happy I am with finished product. Plus, this is the only quilt that ended up using some of the fabric that I had initially collected.
Both of these quilts have found new homes with women who are going through treatment. Now that I have finally figured out how to comfortably find a pattern for someone going through cancer that is more comfort than awareness, I see myself doing more of these in the future.
Could you send me the tutorial for the tender hearts, I am going through breast cancer right now& I have already had my surgery and would like to make these blocks, I am new to quilting. Thank you
Linda, I used the MSQC pattern for the Tender Hearts Quilt (https://www.missouriquiltco.com/land/tutorials/tender-heart-quilt/index.html) Good luck with treatment, we are sending you lots of love!